Tika, brothers and the rice harvest

Among the special days during Tihar is a day for honouring brothers. We went to this festival at the invitation of Dr. Upritti (director of Natraj and something to do with the UN in Afghanistan). Viv, an Australian woman called Shannon and I watched the good Doctor receive the blessings of his sisters and then, with a little direction we three performed the same rituals. We had to create a safe circle with oil, water and marigold petals and then give him the Tika. A circle of white paste on the forehead has to contain all the colours of life. There are seven. And we gave him the mala too (the necklace of mariglods). Then he returned the compliment and we exchanged gifts. Now we are all adopted sisters of Dr. Upritti and of each other. This could be useful. You never know.

When we got back to the Cottage there was a school trip there from the UK. What a shock to hear so many English voices and young ones at that. They were invited to Bhai Tika (brothers day) at the neighbouring houses. They were surprised at the ritual but seemed to know to take it seriously and participate with thought.

They have left now for a rafting trip and then a hike. And so to school. Except that no one told me my school was to be closed today for the rice harvest (maybe no one knew). I taught the students who did show up today and I had a long conversation with the Head. He told me some of his frustrations with the system and his hopes that I am only the first volunteer from the UK (come on people. Lets not disappoint!!) It has been a really useful experience for him and for the school. These government schools are not the most prized in the system or the most supported. Its a delight to be able to make some differences however small.

I have forgotten to bring my photocard so pictures will have to wait til tomorrow.
Namaste,
Jill xx